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As the Memorial Day weekend approaches, many folks’ thoughts wander to family trips to the shore, picnics in the park and chicken barbecues. Television, radio and internet advertisements blast their messages for supreme savings on products ranging from new cars to cushy mattresses to buy-one-get-ones at major department stores.
As we move through our activities this weekend, putting our decorative flags in flower pots on the front porch and preparing for gatherings with family and friends, I make a point to dedicate a time for quiet reflection. To remember and honor those who have made the ultimate sacrifice so I may enjoy the freedom to live in a time of peace, unsettled as it may be in many parts of the world.
My great aunt’s husband served in the great war of his time and participated in one of its bloodiest battles. He was shot in the head and fell with his wounded comrades to lay in the sand on a foreign beach far from home. At the end of the battle, soldiers and medics traversed the field, sifting through the carnage searching for anyone who may still be alive, gathering weapons and identification of those who would be returning home in a body bag rather than on a transport.
One medic stopped to stand less than a foot away from my great uncle’s body. For the first time since arriving on the scene, he took a moment to look across the battlefield, trying to wrap his head around the devastation of human life. He bowed his head in silent prayer, asking his Lord to keep the souls of those who had departed to rest in peace, and to give him the strength and knowledge to help the wounded. As the medic opened his eyes and raised his head, he noticed one of my great uncle’s fingers moving up and down on his right hand. As if my uncle was trying to wave a greeting. The medic checked for a pulse and found my uncle to still be alive.
My great uncle survived his ordeal and lived a long and fruitful life. My great aunt was known to say he was never quite the same as before he left to serve, but then, it was difficult to determine if his change in behavior was due to his head wound or his experiences during the war. Either way, they shared their lives in peace and prosperity, with the understanding if not for the angel of miracles on the battlefield that horrific day, their story would have had a different ending.
My wish for you this Memorial Day is to share moments of joy as you gather with family and friends, or shop ‘til you drop. For it is with this celebration of life and happiness we honor those who have sacrificed their lives and freedoms on our behalf.









